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Agreed. The community isn"t dead, it"s just moving.

Ya virtually every major member name that is familiar to me I"ve already seen posting over there.

Depending on how much you cared for the girl you broke up with and the relationship, and whether or not you mourned / dealt with the breakup at the time, you"re probably doing that now. Depression is a part of that process. It will pass in time. Follow all the advice in here on how to get...

Option C: Find more women who will leave cat diahrea on my sheets Did I help? ;P

Fuck that go for her sister (if she has one) or her mom.

As someone who was cheated on at one point, I think you need to find a way to let the guy know. The longer it goes on the worse it is going to be for the guy to deal with, and he deserves to know now and have a chance to get away from her before he marries her and it becomes a million times...

Name calling doesn"t mean shit, and doesn"t really impact her perception of you. Actions, however, will do that and that is why you"re being told to kick her to the curb and not try this friendship thing. "Handling" the situation by trying to be friends and make her "earn her way back" does...

Ham you don"t know for sure that all she did was kiss the dude. You really honestly think she would tell the friends straight up to their face you were broken up, just to kiss the dude?....really? If you believe that I"ve got all kinds of make believe shit I want to sell you for oodles of cash...

I"m quoting you because you gave yourself all the advice you need. If she was really that into you shewouldbe willing to take a risk or at the very least wouldn"t have said that she doesn"t want a relationship now or the foreseeable future. You did the right thing. Forget her and move on.

Be a man and ask her on an actual date already. Don"t couch it as anything either like a friendly get together, be up front about it so its very clear it"s a date and what your intentions are. You should have your answer about how things stand, and what your next move should be when she...

I didn"t want to be the one to say it first but this was my thought as well. You don"t date someone that long, and do those sorts of things together, only to have them freak out over the being exclusive thing unless she"s got someone else on the side. She may not be sleeping with that other...

I disagree. At work you"re pretty much sure to see them, and if its awkward or uncomfortable it will make work a place you don"t look forward to being at. That can make your work suffer, and all around just be a sucky part of the day to look forward to 5x a week. At home for all you know you...

This. Do NOT try and convince her of anything. Nothing you say, no matter what it is or how you phrase it, will come across as anything other than "pressure" in her mind, and pressure will make her run away from you even faster. Leave her alone and develop the mindset that it"s over so that you...

Tell him everything you have to say about it once, and then let it be. Be a good friend to him, and support him if he needs you, don"t alienate him because of her. Then just let him come to his own decision. You can"t make someone else see sense. They have to come to it on their own, and in...

Ya I vote for honesty. Everything always ends better when you"re up front, honest, and adult about it.

A+ funny right there.

I think more than a number it"s a matter of how much life they"ve experienced. Girls that haven"t dated much, partied, seen parts of the world, basically had a healthy chunk of life experiences tend to be really immature and at some point feel a strong desire to go experience shit like that...

My share of the blame being me ignoring signs or not seeing signs. I should have caught on much sooner. Aside from that I don"t feel guilty in the slightest. No I don"t know the guy or have any way of finding him without snooping and so I"m not going to do that as like was said, that could...

One of my co-workers suspected apparently and tried to tell me but she said "whats wrong with you, where"s your "head" at?" Instead of you know, saying "hey I think she"s already with someone". I thought she was just warning me about the uncomfortablness of an office romance not working out, not...

It sucks and I"ve thought about getting vindictive, but I"m not angry really just disgusted. I hate cheaters, and now she"s turned me into "the other guy" and I just feel kinda gross about it all.

So here"s the conclusion to my story... So I left work a little early Friday and was chilling at home with my puppy when I got a message from her asking if I was coming back to work. I said I didn"t think so, so she asked if she could stop by to talk after work. She said don"t worry its...

She"s not on birth control. We used condoms. She believes in abortion, so do I. I"m older than she is, she"s mid 20"s, I"m 33. She hasn"t been sick that I"ve noticed, except this past weekend when I was out of town I noticed she called in sick saying she hadn"t slept in 3 days and wouldn"t be...

We went snowboarding most saturdays last season so we"ve hung out outside of work. As for the breaking off thing, we did that a month ago. Yes we had sex 1 time in that month (2 weeks ago) but for the other 30 days we were broken off and have each been doing our own thing. So not sure what there...

So I was dating (mostly just sleeping with) a really hot, and more importantly really cool chick here at work. That went on for about 3 - 4 months. She had just gotten out of a long term serious relationship and didn"t want to be in another one, and so had I so everything was working great...

Hey now, there"s no need to drag me into this.

Same. You can"t make the other person do something, all you can do is tell the person you"re with that something they"re doing bothers you. You then get to see if that person, knowing something they"re doing is bothering you, continues to do it. If yes, then you get to decide if you"re willing...

I"d think nose job would be a priority? Just sayin..

Did Camerous get eaten?

This... This... and this... And you have to ask what to do? You sir are no Ahab. On a serious note, 40 pounds is not really a small number, and saying that even after that monumental achievement she would only reach a 6 or 7 status? Then you take into account she seems overly obsessive and...

Point. He could just casually tell her he"s known about his disease for a while now, but didn"t think to bring it up until now? Or just pick some other random STD and go with that. Either way it"s only funny if you"re actually in the clear so maybe wait until you"ve actually been tested for shit...

Text her back that you have AIDS, then sit back with a bowl of popcorn and watch the show.

Took me a long time before I was able to sleep. It was compounded by working with her every day after that. But I didn"t sleep in our old bed for weeks, and just ended up crashing on the couch with the TV on low volume. It helped to have the white noise to drown out the mental images and the...

Fat or not. Ugly or not. Nerd, geek, whatever or not. Nothing excuses cheating, either emotional or physical. That shit is the worst sign of disrespect. Either you talk to your partner about getting whatever need you think is missing filled or you fucking leave them before you pull that shit...

Or he can keep with the theme of this thread and get maybe the best "rim of his life?

Ya I never cared if they were nudes, I also simply wanted to see her face & body to judge her level of attractiveness, and to help put into perspective the whole situation. It"s hard to judge the situation if we have no idea what she looks like. You"re not reneging because of all the abuse...

I could be wrong but here are the Cliff Notes I remember: - Married as virgins - Wife works - He stays home with his disabled children and plays Mr. Mom - Over time he becomes a Christina Aguilera (AKA: weeping vagina) - Wife stops having sex with him or being affectionate - He starts...

I have ponied up pics in the past that are a lot better than the usual thrown around here, I haven"t ever mentioned his kids, and actually (like a lot of posters did) gave good and honest advice to him in the marriage thread trying to help him. I followed his story from the beginning and...

What he said.

Ya I"m in the camp that just because it"s at work doesn"t increase the odds of it not working out. Relationships fail all the time simply because we suck at them until we learn enough lessons the hard way to get it right later on in life. I second the advice of getting to know the girl really...

That"s what she wants you to think...